What Would Bandit Do?

Occasionally you find someone so inspirational and real that you can’t help but want to be like them. The way they speak, the way they look at the world. It’s a gift. For me that someone is Bandit Heeler. The ever patient father of Bingo and Bluey from the animated series ‘Bluey’.

Bandit and his wife Chilly are the most glorious example of parenting I have ever witnessed. I thought my husband and I were pretty good parents but after watching a few episodes I realised we could really do better. Bluey’s parents are not just sneaking in a cheeky life lesson for the children in every episode, they are teaching parents how to parent.

Set in Brisbane the show has covered all of the demands parents face raising small children, with the constant familiarity of Aussie culture. Bandit and Chilly’s understanding of the kids and each other is clear in their knowing banter as they face real life toddler dramas. Learning to share, sleeping in their own bed all night, not interrupting every conversation your mum or dad have with an adult.

I personally think that all new parents should watch the series as a heads up on

A)     What parenting is actually like.

 I would start with the episode called ‘Café’ where Bluey makes a friend in the playground and Bandit is forced to hang out with the friend’s dad. It is a scenario you will be subjected to many many times. Then I would move on to Sheep Dog, which features Chilly saying the line I am sure resonates with mothers everywhere, “Sometimes Mum’s just need twenty minutes”. Damn straight Chilly!

And,

B)     As an example of parenting in a fun and loving way when you are so tired or frustrated you just want to scream or hide in a closet.

I recommend ‘Omelette’ in which Bingo is desperate to help Chilly make Bandit breakfast for his birthday. Spoiler alert, they break a few eggs. Also ‘Burger Shop’ where Bandit faces the very annoying, kids won’t get out of the bath dilemma.

I am sure I am not the only one who has found themselves having a bit more patience with and appreciation for my children. Taking a few more moments on the ridiculous just to make them laugh or giving a bit more thought into how my child might see things.

So next time your child asks you an awkward question, why not ask yourself What Would Bandit Do?

I guarantee it will be a lot more fun.